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Protect society's
most valued asset, your children. Child abuse is often committed by someone
known to the child. If you develop a positive relationship with your children,
they will not feel afraid to discuss their problems with you. Know their
interests and friends. Set good examples for them to follow. Help them
to develop a strong value and a positive self-image. Help them to enjoy their
youth while being aware of their environment and how they can protect
themselves. Discuss these issues with them:
- Recognizing suspicious and inappropriate
behavior among strangers and family members.
- How no one should touch the areas of their
body that a bathing suit would cover.
- To remember vehicle license numbers and the
description of the persons acting in a suspicious way.
- To let you know where they are at all times.
- To go straight to a cashier or an information
booth if they become separated from you in a public area.
- If they are home alone they should not open
the door or when answering the phone, should not say that they are
alone in the house.
- To never enter a strange person's vehicle and
never hitchhike.
- To tell you if they are ever threatened.
- What 9-1-1 is and when to use it.
- To stay safe on the Internet.
Internet
Safety Tips for Kids
The Internet is a lot of fun to
surf and is a great learning tool for homework help or just general
information, right? Right, but there is a bad side to the Internet and,
just like at school or at the park, you need to think about your
personal safety when you’re surfing.
Okay, so say you’re on AOL and chatting to one of your friends and
someone you don’t know starts to talk to you. They seem pretty nice, so
you keep chatting. They ask you about school and your mom, your dad, if
you have any brothers or sisters. They seem really interested in you.
So, after a while, since this person is so nice, you start talking to
them all the time. Pretty soon, they tell you they wish they could hang
out with you. Maybe they could meet you at the mall or the skateboard
park or your house.
What should you do? Just like at the park you shouldn’t talk to
strangers. You really don’t know this person. Maybe they are nice but
maybe they are not. You should talk to an adult you trust about this
person and, with that trusted adult, decide how to deal with the
situation. Never make plans to meet someone you’re met on the Internet
without discussing the idea with your mom, dad or your guardian.
The scary truth is that there are people on the Internet that pretend
they are someone they are not. In some situations those people become
your friends on-line and then they try to find or meet you. Children
and adults have been hurt or gone missing because they went to meet an
“Internet friend”. Use your common sense. If you don’t feel
comfortable, immediately tell an adult, sign off, and go surf somewhere
else.
Never give out any personal
information, like your name, phone number or address to anyone on the
Internet that you AND your parents don’t know. It can be dangerous.
Just like at the park, you have to play safe.
There are some really great sites on the net but you need to be careful
when you check them out. A couple of safe places to look at for good
sites are:
www.kids.gov
www.nasa.gov/audience/forkids/home/index.html
www.whitehouse.gov/kids/
http://www.doi.gov/kids/
http://www.nps.gov/yell/kidstuff/
http://www.healthfinder.gov/kids/
http://www.epa.gov/kids/index.htm
http://www.hhs.gov/kids/
http://www.fema.gov/kids/
http://www.nsa.gov/kids/intro.htm
http://www.usda.gov/news/usdakids/
Be safe! And have fun. Get mom
or dad to sit and surf with you. You could probably teach them a thing
or two!
Personal Safety
While anyone of any age can be victimized, women, seniors and
persons with disabilities are targeted more frequently.
These guidelines will help you and your family to reduce crime and
maintain a more secure and safer environment.
- Use only your first initial(s) and your last
name on mailboxes, in directories, etc. if you live alone.
- Never open your door to a stranger without
proper identification.
- Arrange a system so that someone you trust has
a key to your home and is aware of your whereabouts at all times,
especially if you live alone.
- Don't display large amounts of money in public
or keep it in your home.
- Don't leave keys hidden in obvious places
(i.e. under mat, under planter, over door frame, etc.)
- Walk on well-lit streets near the curb and
away from alleys, particularly if you must walk alone at night.
- When in public, always be aware of your
surroundings. Be mindful of persons loitering or acting
suspiciously.
- If you suspect you are being followed, go to
the nearest well-lit public place or populated area. Yell if
necessary to attract attention.
- Never hitchhike. Once trapped inside a
vehicle, it is difficult to escape.
- If you are being sexually or physically abused
at your home, workplace or social setting, help is available.
Report the offense.
Home Safety
You can help to increase the
safety of your home and neighborhood by joining Neighborhood Watch.
Through proper attention to home security and protection, you can reduce
and discourage unlawful residence entries and enjoy the comfort of your
home.
Follow these simple and effective measures:
- Clearly mark all of your electronics and
related items with your California Drivers License. An engraver is
available through your local
Crime
Prevention Officer at no charge.
- Install dead bolt locks on all exterior doors
and self-tapping screws in the upper track of patio doors and
windows.
- Ensure that entry locks are changed or
re-keyed, if you are a new tenant or owner.
- Secure all basement and ground level windows
and patio doors.
- Have your local
Crime
Prevention Officer come to your home for a courtesy
safety inspection.
- Make your home fire-safe, eliminate all fire
hazards such as papers or cleaners stored near your furnace.
Install and test smoke alarms and plan an escape route.
- Insure your home and contents. Store
valuables in a safety deposit box.
- Give you home a "lived-in" look when you’re
gone by using automatic timers.
- Have the mail, newspapers, etc., picked up and
the awns cut when you are away from home.
- Trim all shrubs, trees and plant life away
from your home so that windows are in plain view.
- Check references of all individuals before
employing anyone in your home.
Vehicle Safety
Motor vehicles have become an
important part of our lifestyle. Personal safety and protection must be
a consideration every time you enter the vehicle. These suggestions will
help to keep you protected and keep your vehicle safer:
- Ensure that your vehicle is well-maintained,
mechanically fit and road-worthy.
- Always check in the back seat of your vehicle
before entering, especially at night, especially when alone.
- Always wear your seatbelt.
- Never drink and drive.
- Never leave your vehicle unattended with the
engine running.
- Park in well-lit areas at night.
- Don't ever leave personal identification or
valuables in the vehicle.
- Consider installing an anti-theft device and a
locking gas cap.
- Always lock all doors and windows after
exiting.
- Keep your garage locked. Lock your vehicle
even though it’s inside the garage.
- Don't put your name or address on your vehicle
keys.
- Keep your vehicle and house keys on separate
key rings or on a detachable key ring. When turning your vehicle in
for service, separate your house keys.
- In case of vehicle trouble, turn on your
flashers, lock yourself in your vehicle and display a "Call Police"
sign. Wait in your car for the police. Do not open the door or
window for a “friendly” passerby.
Phone Busters
Do these sound familiar?
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Congratulations! You are
guaranteed to win a prize, but you have to buy our products to get your
prize.
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Congratulations! You have
won your choice of several wonderful prizes! All we need is your bank
account number or Visa number to confirm who you are and we will send
them off.
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Congratulations! You are
already the winner of something ridiculously fabulous but you have to send us money
up front for shipping and handling.
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Someone claiming to be a
lawyer/customs officer/police officer has just told you that you are
entitled to a large cash settlement, but you have to send money for
taxes in advance.
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A caller just told you that
they will recover the amount of money that was already lost to another
telemarketing company.
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A scratch and win card has
just arrived. You scratch the prize area and see that you have won one
of the prizes mentioned, but you have to call a "900" number in order to
claim your prize.
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An official document has
just arrived advising you that you won some gift, but you will have to
call a certain number in order to claim your prize.
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You have just seen a number
in a publication that tells you to call a number to obtain a loan. They
have approved you for the loan but are requesting an upfront fee (first
and last months payment/application or insurance fees, etc., in order to
process your request).
All of these are scams. If you
had really won something, you wouldn’t need to send any fees or taxes up
front. All of those are handled by IRS when you file your tax return.
These people are just trying to get your hard earned money. Don’t let
them have it.
Senior Busters
Be aware that there are many con
artists that want your money. The key is to be aware. There are mail
and email frauds, con games and sweet-talk crimes. Keep these
guidelines and you should be able to detect a con. If it’s too good to
be true, it probably is.
- Don't pay any money up
front. Do not pay any fees or "good faith" money.
- Do not sign any contract
without having it examined.
- Check the credentials of
any salesperson or business. All business people should be
registered with City licensing or the Better Business Bureau.
- Don’t make hasty
decisions where your money or property is concerned.
Here
are some examples of frequently used scams:
"Your money is safe . . . with me "
What they do: pretend to be bank inspectors and ask for your
assistance in catching a person defrauding the bank. But they need you
to take money out of your account to make sure they have the right
person.
What you do: Close the door or hang up the phone and call
police. If you’re already at your bank, pretend you’re going along with
it to get away from the “inspector” and have the bank teller call the
police.
"Let me fix that for you"
What they do: come to your house telling you that you need home
repairs or that they think you do and want to inspect your roof, floor,
etc.
What you do: If you did
not call these people, close the door and call the police. Never let
anyone you don’t know into your home. When you actually need home
repair, make sure you get at least three quotes before you choose a
company. Make sure the company has a contractor’s license and is fully
licensed and insured.
"Trust me – I’m a cop "
What they do: pretend to be a police officer investigating a
crime. He/she wants to mark the valuables but does not have the tools.
He/she asks you to take them to the station.
What you do: Get their IBM number and name, close the door and
call the police. If the person at the door is a police officer, he/she
will understand.
”All that glitters is not Gold"
What they do: approach
you and say he/she has a gold nugget and needs money for a family
emergency. A second person stops as the first person is talking to
you. The second person pretends this is too good to be true and asks if
he/she can take the nugget to a conveniently nearby jewelry store to
have it confirmed as being gold. The second person then comes out of
the jewelry store and states that it is gold and that it is worth a
stated amount. But the second person only has enough money in their
bank account to cover half of the cost of the gold nugget. Will you
cover the other half?
What you do: Get a good description of these people and any
vehicle they may have. Call the police immediately to report the
activity, even though you were too smart to be conned. These people are
working together. No one in the jewelry store even looked at the
nugget, which is actually a piece of dense metal painted gold. You were
about to be swindled. What your parents told you is true. If it looks
too good to be true, it probably is.
”Lotto Luck”
What they do: A person approaches you and says that he/she has
a winning lottery ticket but cannot cash it because he/she has no
identification and/or is in this country illegally. Often, a second
person will also participate in this scam. It can be very similar to
the gold scam and usually requires you to take money out of your account
or wallet.
What you do: Get a good description and call the police. You
don’t need to be legal to collect lottery winnings.
For Seniors:
Safety is generally a matter of common sense. Making yourself feel
less vulnerable is sometimes more difficult. The best way to be, and
feel safe, is by educating yourself as much as possible and being aware
of your surroundings.
Home Safety
Make sure that you have good locks on
all doors and on your windows. And ensure that your home is well lit.
If you are concerned about the security of your home, and you live in
the Modesto Police Department area, you are welcome to call the Modesto
Police Department’s
Crime Prevention Officer
for your area and book a Home Security Inspection. A
Crime Prevention Officer
will come to your home and thoroughly evaluate your home.
You will then be given advice as to how to make your home more secure
and a less desirable target to an opportunistic criminal.
Most people feel very safe in their own homes. This feeling of safety
can be shattered when you are broken into or find yourself in a
situation with an unwanted caller or visitor. There are several ways to
make yourself less vulnerable.
Valuables
Have all of your valuables marked for
identification. Things like your TV, stereo, walker, cane and motorized
scooter can be engraved to deter theft. You can borrow an engraver from
the
Crime Prevention Office
or call us for other options.
Write down the makes, models, and serial numbers of any
valuable equipment and put it away for safe keeping, preferably in a
safety deposit box or in a concealed location.
At the Door
Never open the
door before you know who is on the other side. Have a peephole installed
in the door so that you can see who the caller is. A peephole is
inexpensive and easily installed. If you do not know the person, do
not open the door. If they refuse to leave, call the police. If a
stranger comes to the door needing to use the phone, dial the number for
them and speak on their behalf. You do not have to open the door. If
you don’t feel comfortable, don’t do it.
On the Telephone
You are always in control of a phone
conversation. If a stranger calls, and asks you who they are
speaking to, ask them who they are looking for. Don’t let callers take
over. Do not volunteer personal information. Do not give out your name
and address to complete strangers. If the caller states they are from a
company or organization, ask for their business, name and number and
tell them you will call them back. Remember, if they keep talking after
you tell them you are not interested, they are being rude, not you.
Hang up on them.
If you are having a problem with obscene calls or frequent hang ups or
wrong numbers call the telephone company. There are a variety of
options available including getting a new phone number.
Safety on The Street
Be aware of your surroundings and plan
the route you are going to take. If you are going into an area where
you are uncomfortable, ask yourself if there is an alternate route and
take it. If you are walking on the sidewalk, walk in the middle. This
makes it tougher for a criminal to grab a purse or a bag. Avoid poorly
lit areas.
Don’t:
- Carry large sums of money
or
- Flash your money around
or
- Carry so much that you do
not have one free hand!
Safety in Your Vehicle
There are some simple guidelines to
vehicle safety:
- Keep your vehicle in good
working order.
- Never let your gas drop
below ¼ of a tank.
- Make sure you lock your
vehicle, even when you are in it.
- Never leave valuables
visible. Don’t ever leave your purse or briefcase on the seat, even
if you’re just running in somewhere “for a minute”.
- Make sure that you have
your car keys ready as you go to your car.
- Be sure to check the
front and back seats before you get in.
- Keep a flashlight handy.
- Never put your name,
address or driver’s license number on your key ring.
- Keep an emergency kit in
your trunk. Include a blanket, candle, matches/lighter, a granola
or energy bar and water. (You may never need it, but there’s comfort
in having it available if you should break down.) Replace the
granola/energy bar and water often in the summer and every month or
so in the winter.
If you break down:
- Put on your four way
flashers, put your hood up and stay in your car until help arrives.
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If a stranger stops to help, speak
through a barely opened window. If you are uncomfortable or you
don’t trust the stranger, tell them police are already on their
way. If that does not work, sound your horn.
If The Worst Happens...
If you are being robbed, give up
whatever the item being demanded of you. Nothing is worth your life!
You are more important! Try to get details about your attacker, note the
hair color, height, age, eye color, any scars or physical features that
stand out.
If you have to defend yourself, for
whatever reason, remember, there are no rules! It is good practice to
carry a whistle. If you are in a situation, the best way to attract
attention is to make a loud noise. Yelling works, but it takes a lot of
energy and voices can fail. A whistle is very loud and takes much less
energy. Report the details to the police immediately. |